Though CentOS 5 isn't officially supported by this driver, I know for a fact that it works fine under CentOS 5 because the engineer who maintains that driver uses that OS for his build machine.
"dgdm: dgdm_triboot(0) - Adapter download error! We did not finish! state=0xfffffffe, status=18 DGDM - ERROR STATUS: TRIBL_FEP_ERROR"
That output does NOT look like a driver issue. Based on the output, it seems like either the card is defective, the PCI slot is defective, or the card isn't quite seated in that PCI slot properly, so those are the things I'd recommend checking.
PCI resource contention is also a possibility. The following article will help troubleshooting that:
http://www.digi.com/support/kbase/kbaseresultdetl.jsp?id=223